I was asked to repost something I wrote but couldn't find.
This is what I can remember of it... " Don't
allow yourself to reside or even dally in the warm, comfortable cocoon of
self-pity and "victimhood". While there exists in that place, a
distinct absence of blame, responsibility, and accountability, there is also a
dearth of light, hope, joy, and growth...Of course, there is pain in both
accountability and self-pity, but only in self-responsibility is there any
prospect, what-so-ever, for accomplishment and satisfaction."
Lessons Learned in Life